Add missing IPV6_TRANSPARENT socket option to the TCP redirect listener
Control callback, matching what the UDP redirect listener already sets.
Without this, the kernel silently drops IPv6 TPROXY-redirected connections.
Also clean up handler_linux.go getOriginalDstAddr:
- Remove encoding/binary import and heap allocation for port conversion
- Replace with zero-allocation ntohs (native-to-network byte order swap)
- Document the struct layout hack where GetsockoptIPv6Mreq and
GetsockoptIPv6MTUInfo are used to read sockaddr_in/sockaddr_in6
from SO_ORIGINAL_DST (kernel returns smaller structs than the
getter functions expect, but only the first N bytes are populated)
Fixesgo-gost/gost#126